When we are talking about growth and transformation we need to talk about change that is empowering, liberating, filled with purpose, and with the joy of life and living. In order to move from a place of disempowerment, acceptance is the key.
Here are some key steps that I encourage you to take on your journey and in any given situation.
The first step is Recognition.
That is, recognising something needs to be different, that you are not happy or content with where you are, and you desire to move to a more fulfilled place within yourself.
Acceptance follows recognition.
Accepting what you discover and embracing it fully. Acceptance is the key in all change, growth and transformation. I always use the term – calm acceptance. It is from a place of calm, that acceptance is easier to embrace. Then the next steps must be taken. One must remember however that acceptance without an action, brings little change.
The next step is Evaluation.
This is the step where you consider if the words, thoughts, actions, circumstances, decision etc are supporting you. Do they give you what you want, do they lead and guide you to that place, or do they tear you down and take from you those things that are yours? Evaluate what is happening, and consider if there is need for change, release or calm.
Awareness follows Evaluation.
It is this step where you become aware of where those thoughts, actions or life moments sit in the layers and what they ‘bring’ to that layer.
Next we move to a place of calming the layer or releasing from what is holding or restricting you and your life.
Application is the final step.
After completing the first four steps, we decide on a new action or response, and step into a new reality.
Acceptance is the key as we explore the layers of Self. Acceptance is embracing all of who you are. Acceptance is embracing what is, with an expectation of what will be. It is an empathetic response to self in acknowledging where we are in that moment, with a belief that we are not bound and restricted in the moment.
Peiec healing is really quite simple. It is accepting that change comes when we address all the parts of Self. That we hold pain, trauma, joy, happiness in all the layers is part of the recognition and acceptance that is needed as you continue your journey of healing and spiritual growth.
The Blossom and the Space

The Blossom and the Space

Can you find the peace?

When you look at a tree you will see the beautiful blossoms. You will see the perfection of nature and beauty that resides in it. But look more closely and see those spaces between the blossoms, between the branches where the silence beckons even when the branches are swaying. The tree cannot be without the space, without the breath between each branch, between each leaf between each flower, between each petal. Each space carries the essence of Source within it and melds itself with the known, the tree itself. It is the same for you.

I talk about this concept in more depth in my podcast episode “The Blossom and the Space’. Just type in Anandi Sano podcast in the major podcast platforms. You can also use this podcast to go deep within Self

Many blessings


What in the world is that?

What in the world is that?

What in the world is that image? To you it may just look like a tightly packed bunch of spheres. To me it is a representation of what I see in someone’s energetic layers of Self. I can see them when you’re physically infront of me or even if you’re speaking to me on the phone.
They move, shift and change. The energetic life moments appear and disappear as you speak, listen, think, act, react, feel. There may only be two life moments at one point when we interact and in the blink of an eye you will have ten. It is an interesting way to perceive the world.
As you engage with the world and yourself your energetic layers of Self bring up energetic life moments. They can either be positive or negative. For most of us we consistently have life moments that rise to the surface and create unrest within our mind, physical vessel and reality. It causes our minds to race, our nervous system to be in constant overdrive and our body becomes unwell. What happens in our layers reflects what happens in our external world.
When we are able to calm and release these energetic components of ourselves everything changes. The mind becomes quiet, our nervous system regulates, our body heals and our reality and life shifts. This shift can happen within minutes. As we start to live with space and calmness in our layers our spiritual growth rapidly accelerates. We are able to hold larger amounts of energy because it flows unhindered and we are able to live in presence.
So when you next interact with me don’t think about what I can see in your layers think about the opportunity that you have for me to release them. Better yet why not let me teach you how to release them for yourself.
As so many are saying.. “This is what I have been searching for”.
Many blessings

Where do my thoughts come from?

Where do my thoughts come from?

I was asked the other day if I knew where thoughts came from. To me,  with the work that I do, it is actually quite a simple concept.

Thoughts are the projection of what is occurring in the layers of Self. You’re probably asking “What does she mean by that?”

If I initially explain it from the point of view of someone being present and still, where there is no thought, no rise and fall of the emotion they will be perceive any object , conversation, ineraction, circumstance from a balanced and calm state. When I look at that person there are no negative life moments in the layers of Self and the layers are flowing calmly. They will preceive a pen without any thought . It just is. The mind is still. The body is still. The energy is soft and flowing gently.

Now, if I were to give the pen to someone else, just by showing them the pen will potentially trigger the rise of dormant energetic life moments in the layers of Self. As they rise to the surface the experiences that are held in these life moments will be picked up by the mind and brought to life.  In a sense the mind is the projector screen of the different life moments that are coming up through the layers. The life moments are not linear in nature. They don’t follow a time line of certain things that have negatively impacted you.

Any word, action, object , thought, sound etc can trigger a life moment that may not have anything to do with the actual event or circumstance. It could just be a similar colour, a similar look ,or maybe a similar shaped obejct that was taken from you at some point in your life.

Our layers will bring up life moments that have any sort of similarity to them. Some may seem so benign and irrelevant but our layers will bring up any life moment that it thinks is relevant.

So from just looking at a pen you could all of a sudden start feeling irritable , your mind starts racing about different things, and you start playing over in your mind what happened two months ago with a certain person. The more life moments arise, the more life moments are triggered in the layers of Self, the busier our mind becomes.

However, If we were to go energetically into the layers of Self as these life moments arose and energetically released them, the mind very quickly goes quiet and still. There is nothing to project onto the cinema screen.

As we release more and more life moments from our layers of Self we are easily able to stay in a space of peace and calm, the mind is quiet and you are in the Now. That space in a wonderful space to be.

I will talk about this some more in some of my future posts. Where the space and peace we create in our layers, creates the perfect environment for the mind to be used as tool for creativity and innovation.

Many Blessings

How I went from flashbacks to calmness

How I went from flashbacks to calmness

During my years of having complex PTSD, over a decade, I struggled being able to regulate my nervous system. It used to fire up but then I really struggled to come down from that heightened state. It was like I was constantly living with an underlying anxiety, my thoughts would never stop and I would get sick quite often.
We know that the stress response closely aligns to our wellness, how we cope with life and how to we interact with our surroundings, situations and interactions.
Great things happen when we are able to regulate our nervous system, when we become parasympathetically dominant. Our breath is full, slow, and deep. The digestive system works well. The body can focus on repair, including reduction of inflammation, tissue repair, and hormone production. Subjectively, people feel fully present and alive.They have energy to get through their day, and they can stay calm and present in challenging situations.
During my long period of dealing with my PTSD, and probably for most of my life, I definitely had major issues in being able to regulate my sympathetic nervous system. After I was provoked by something, how quickly and smoothly did my system deactivate? Ummm, it felt like never. Was I still bothered by small events hours or days afterward? Ummm….yes!
So my life became like a washing machine, stopping every now and then to rinse and soak before it started its tumbling action again. Eventually I tried meditation, qigong, buddhism, sound healing, bringing awareness to my body and my thoughts to try and calm and control my responses. It helped but that underlying anxiety never truly went away. The negative thoughts and self talk never truly went away.
And then in 2016 Source showed me the energetic layers of self and that low vibrating energetic life moments, which you could describe as the equivalent of every life experience, sit in these layers of self and are triggered to rise to the surface in any given moment.
Once they rise to the surface they trigger the body and mind and then the nervous system responds.
What I was shown was that as this change in the physical vessel started to occur , Source showed me how to energetically work within my layers and calm and release these low vibrating life moments. The moment I started doing that, my thoughts ceased, my nervous system regulated, my body started to heal and I instantly became calm. I was stunned by the results.
In working in this way, by going into my layers the moment I felt something arise, and calm and release the energy that was there, I was able to heal my debilitating PSTD in 3 months. The wonderful other side effect was that my body started to heal as well from long standing issues and I was able to step into a space of higher consciousness and vibration.
I became more present and as I kept releasing these energetic life moments from my layers a stillness and peace became the underlying state. As I healed and had a greater capacity to be aware of when things were shifting within me, I was shown deeper life experiences which would normally have sent me in a downward spiral, but this time it had less of an effect. For as soon as it arose I was instructed to release the energetic component of it. Instantaneously the heightened effect of that memory disappeared but I was able to observe it with a calmness. There was no need to discuss it, to delve into it, it just was. It was something that had been, something that did not have a hold on me anymore.
Source told me that one needs to be able have a tool and the ability to downregulate the stress response in the body and mind before going into highly stressful material.
In other words, I was told that you should never go into material that’s overwhelming, because overwhelming inherently means it’s bigger than your capacity to deal with it. So instead of the issue resolving, more symptoms arise. The way around this was to first support the capacity for downregulation within the physical vessel. Then, only after this “ calming system” was on board, was the more difficult material or what I call , life moments, released through the layers, one bit at a time.
And so after a while I started to empty my cup of those things that kept my life bound. I started to vibrate at a higher frequency and one day the calmness and stillness and peace became a permanent fixture in my life. And the beauty of it all was that it was not a lengthy process of having to delve into my past and re- live my trauma. I had been doing that my whole life anyway, but once I released that energetic component of these life moments everything changed.
It is this system that I offer my students and clients. I teach them exactly what I was shown, in the exact order so that they too can step into peace and wholeness. I am now able to facilitate change in others. I am able to shift life moments, create deep healing, raise your consciousness and bring a calmness to your physical vessel just through my state of being. It is like you become entrained within the higher vibration and your whole being is able to shift its state into wellness and peace. It is wonderful to watch as this occurs in people.
I am also able to offer all of what I was taught by Source online and the shifts in people have been truly amazing and humbling to watch and it is unlike anything I have ever experienced before.
What I feel now and the space I live in is something that I wish for all.
May peace wraps its arms around you and carry you home.
Many blessings